Casa Sofiya

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Hijrah?

Received this letter today....:)

love letter :)
Hmmm...okay...I will wait for another letter then I will make my decision...InsyaAllah...

Later peeps!!

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Kelantan

Entry ni lama dah...2 weeks before end year, My family went to Kota Bharu. Holiday ke? boleh lah...actually Mr. H ada 2 days meeting kat sana. so..as usual kalau cuti sekolah kami tumpang ikutlah kan...but kali ni we all naik Air Asia hehe and I bring along my Mak...

I haven't been to Kota Bharu for in almost 15 years or more :). Surprisingly...tak banyak berubah..sigh...okay lupakan about perubahan :) but lets talk about food. seriously 3 days kat sana memang makan jer lah...murah, sedap and pelbagai...

We checked in Temenggung Hotel, memang sengaja nak tinggal situ sebab dekat dengan TNB tempat Mr. H meeting, Bazaar Batik and Pasar Siti Khadijah...and semua tempat yg I nak pergi cuma walking distance :) hotel 3 stars but okay lah...selesa lah jugak walaupun ada rungutan2 kecil from my ""diva" daughters :P. Nak makan gerai belakang hotel banyak...24hr restaurant just seberang jalan so...no complaints. Parkson pun belakang jer pendek kata anyone of you yg tak cerewet sangat pasal Hotel ni, Temenggung is the best hotel lah semuanya dekat!

First day we went to Wakaf Che Yeh, hahaha..I, Mak and Nurin jer...naik teksi and pakcik teksi tunggu we all habis shopping cuma RM40 jer..okay lah kan...3 jam tunggu we all pusing pasar malam wakaf che yeh :)...banyak sangat tudung bawal macam2 corak,  cotton "pokodok" (yes...polca dot), kain ela, batik chiffon ( nyesal tak beli banyak kat sini...kat pasar siti khadijah mahal sikit ). sempat makan kat satu gerai yg tomyamnya sangat sedap...teringat2 I. tapi lupa lah kedai apa...:).

Okay jom tengok pic yg sempat di upload..ada banyak lagi from camera...but yang ini from my BB lah...:)



Welcoming a new member to the family

I am adoring 2012! It's because it began with welcoming a "new" member to the family...Alhamdulillah...

pic from Google :)


Yes!  Mr. H did it...after so long...congrats to him...kereta lama macam mana? hey...simpan tau...sentimental value...maybe masuk workshop nak touch up sana sini :) am proud of him...bertahan dengan kereta lamanya...since zaman kami bercinta, hadiah from his father tu yang sayang sangat...banyak berjasa "badang" ni kata Mr. H. Why badang huh? sebab plat no BDG...so jadilah badang...sesuai lah dengan usianya tapi masa gagah perkasa ahaks!

So for Camry hmm...Mr. H said naturally, its was love at the first sight.  Plat WWE tapi number sama dengan his sister ( my car).  So yeah … he’s totally in love with his new wife car. Not sure what to name it just yet any suggestions? :P

Later peeps!!

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Why can’t you be happy for other people's success?

Assalamualaikum...


I try to sleep but I can't. It's 1.30 at morning already…so I decided to share with you good article I found selfguide.co.uk.

Why can’t you be happy for other people's success?

We are living in a material world today and it’s a shame to recognise that people are jealous of others’ success. If you see that somebody else is getting ahead of you, your heart aches. It doesn’t really matter whether it’s a close friend/relative who’s succeeding or it’s just somebody you work with or know. At the end of the day, the feeling of jealousy should not really be there. If you think about it carefully, you’ll see that there shouldn’t be any reasons why you should feel jealous if someone you know is having some good luck and making some progress in life.

Many times people get this little pinch in the heart when hearing about the success of even somebody less wealthy than themselves. Your ego doesn’t want anybody else to get ahead of you. You don’t want to be left behind and you always want to be ahead in the game. This is how the ego thinks because it knows no better. How can you be jealous of someone who has less than you? You can’t as it doesn’t make sense but why should you be jealous if somebody else is succeeding and you’re not? Of course, there’s this feeling of jealousy because you don’t want anybody else’s success but your own, there’s also this feeling of anger because you can’t see why someone else deserves success while you don’t, there’s the feeling of frustration because you think everything you’re doing is not being rewarded.

Let’s just say that one Wednesday evening while watching TV, you hear the phone ring and when you answer it, you find that it’s your best friend who’s calling. He couldn’t wait to share his happiness with you because he’s got a promotion. Now you’re going really good for yourself because you’re earning £80,000 a year and your friend who’s on the line gets around £18,000 a year in contrast. But as soon as you hear that he’s got a promotion, your heart sinks because the feeling of jealousy rushes through your veins. You’re afraid that he’ll be getting more money than you, you’re afraid he’s going to get a better position than you. You’re feeling sorry for yourself rather than being happy for your friend until he tells you that he’s getting £2000 more a year and that’s really going to make a difference in his life since he was struggling financially. He was so happy about the whole thing that he couldn’t wait to tell you because you’re his best friend after all. Of course you’re now relieved because you’ve found that the success is not a menace to you. You’re still above him, you’re still in a better financial position and can look down on him. But wait, there’s also this feeling of regret that surrounds you now because you’re thinking that you must really be sick to be jealous of somebody so close and who cares about you and who deserves a lot more than what they’re getting.

Ego is the root of all evil – agree with ego and you shall never be happy. You cannot live like this. You need to change the way you think. You should be happy of other people’s success even if you’re not getting any success yourself. This is because when you share the happiness of other people, you create positibe vibes for others and yourself and that’s how success eventually finds its way to you.


later peeps...:)

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Happy New Year

Weeehoo...still not too late to wish you all Happy New Year...I sincerely hope year 2012 will bring us happiness, strength, love, good health and many more. 2011 has been a very good year for me and my family and I feel extremely blessed... Alhamdulillah but 2012 looks even better InsyaAllah

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